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Speaker gets students thinking about violence Print E-mail
Written by Jonathan Partridge / Patterson Irrigator /   
Saturday, 06 October 2007

“It was truly inspirational. I will think of my friends in a whole other way now.”
- PHS Senior, Michael Simeon


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Elias Funez / Patterson Irrigator
Think. Talk with your hearts. And treat peers with respect.

That was some of the advice offered by nationally known motivational speaker Michael Pritchard on Wednesday, as he addressed Patterson High School students in the school gymnasium.

Pritchard, who made his presentation two weeks after a campus gang brawl, used comedy routines, impressions and serious anecdotes about the consequences of crime to get his message across.

“All I’m asking from you guys is to increase the peace, increase respect and give teachers a big round of applause for all they do,” Pritchard said as he summed up the second of two presentations.

Pritchard has a background in counseling and stand-up comedy. He has performed with Jay Leno, Robin Williams and Jerry Seinfeld and done voices for television and movies. He said he received a call while on the road to another engagement about the opportunity to speak at Patterson High School, and he couldn’t pass it up.

The St. Louis native said he grew up in a working-class community, much like some Patterson High School students.

“Some of your parents are working so hard and brought you here to escape the thing that we bring with us — hate,” he said.

Pritchard, a man of great size and stature, began his presentation with a moment of silence for young people who had died from acts of violence.

He made it clear during his second speech that he would not tolerate a lack of respect from the audience, telling people who continued talking that they could leave if they did not settle down.

His talk went on through first-hand accounts of the challenges and crises facing today’s youth.

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“Sometimes you don’t have an appreciation or respect for what people have inside them,” Pritchard said.

He described a boy he once talked to who would hide a baby sibling when his father got drunk, so that the child wouldn’t be shaken.

He asked the audience how many students hear the words “bitches” and “hos” spoken on campus each day. The vast majority raised their hands.

Pritchard said those words often are used by murderers who hold women in control before killing them.

He also asked if students regularly heard derogatory words about homosexuals on campus, and about three-fourths of the students raised their hands.

Pritchard described a student who hanged himself in barbed wire after being called such names on campus.

Students in general live in a violent society, from graphic video games to incidents of street violence, Pritchard said.

“Don’t tell me you’re not soaked in this sickness,” Pritchard shouted at one point.

He discussed the consequences of some of those acts of violence, including a gang member in Compton who ended up in a wheelchair after a gun battle. Fellow gang members told him it would have been better if he had died — at least then they could pour a 40-ounce container of alcohol over his grave.

“Too many kids in America are crying with bullets instead of tears,” Pritchard said.

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Pritchard mentioned that even some of his wealthy and famous friends, such as Bill Cosby and Michael Jordan, have been touched by violence. Jordan’s father was killed by two teenagers at a highway rest area in 1993, and Cosby’s son, Ennis, was shot to death by a man who robbed him at gunpoint in 1997.

“Violence doesn’t have a zip code,” Pritchard said.

Pritchard urged students not to use hurtful words and to get to know one another rather than judging on appearances.

 “You don’t need to blow someone else’s candle out to make yours a little brighter,” he said.

In the first of two presentations Wednesday, students stepped forward and talked about their own experiences with bullying.

Pritchard said afterward that schools often focus on the mind, but they don’t deal enough with the heart and spiritual matters. Many students in Ivy League schools have high test scores, but have problems such as binge drinking and social difficulties, he said.

Junior Rebecca Hinojos said Pritchard’s presentation was more touching than she had expected.
“I kind of wanted to cry,” she said, “and he’s really, like, funny, all at the same time.”

Several students said the presentation made them think twice about making derogatory comments to others.
Senior Michael Simeon said he will change the way he addresses his friends.

“It was truly inspirational,” he said. “I will think of my friends in a whole other way now.”

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Another student, Emilio Pinedo, described the presentation as merely “all right,” but said it got him thinking about peace.

The Central Regional School Insurance Group, which provides insurance for Patterson Unified School District, sponsored the presentation.

Patterson Unified School District Superintendent Patrick Sweeney said various people and groups, such as the insurance firm, have been helpful since the Sept. 19 brawl.

Principal David Stubbs said the presentation probably would not have had as much of an impact if it had happened the day after the melee. Since that time, he has met with “at-risk” students at the school, and talked to them about their perceptions of other students and staff and campus safety in general.

“I want this to continue,” Stubbs said. “I think it had a strong impact on a lot of kids today.”

He said caring attitudes exhibited by school employees have been a great help during the past two weeks.

Students have been fantastic as well, Sweeney said.

The school will have a similar presentation in November, Stubbs said, and more to come after that.

“I’m a firm believer that if kids are in a safe, secure environment, we can go anywhere,” Stubbs said.

To reach Jonathan Partridge at the Irrigator, call 892-6187 or e-mail him at This e-mail address is being protected from spam bots, you need JavaScript enabled to view it


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written by Karen Fink , October 06, 2007
I am happy to hear that our community leaders, as well as our school administrators and teachers, are willing to spend their time, energy and money towards making our children feel safe in school. I was especially thrilled to hear that Michael Pritchard was brought in to give a talk to the high school students. I heard him speak at an event over 20 years ago and I was glad to hear he is still making an impact for kids using his compa*sionate non-violent message with sensitivity and humor!
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Feelgood nonsense
written by HeartlandRancher , October 08, 2007
How does this guy make our community safer? What a bunch of feelgood nonsense. Are we supposed to feel sorry for the violent punks in our town?
Forget this so called gang activity. ANYBODY that commits a violent act should be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law. This liberal attitude of "understanding" is another reason why Patterson schools have failed our kids again. Great job again, Patterson School Board. (By the way, guess how many of the school board members have their kids in private school? How can a person be in office if they don't believe in their own district?)
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"at risk students"
written by HeartlandRancher , October 08, 2007
What does the term "at risk students" mean? It looks like codeword for something else to me.
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written by HeartlandRancher , October 08, 2007
It's very nice that everyone will be thinking about peace and goodwill the next time somebody gets beaten down or shot in our town.
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Delta High School Ad
written by HeartlandRancher , October 08, 2007
Nice juxtaposition, the article about violence right next to the private school ad. Did they pay extra for that?
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theres been somewhat of a change
written by michael simeon , October 23, 2007
after mr. pritchard came to the school, its changed. well not really a big chamge, but the viloence has calmed down quite a bit. there used to be fights after school or people just mean mugging you, but now there is more peace in the air. while i cant say the delectations that the school yearns for are here, i can say that improvements have came and i only expect them to advance towards a more prosperous and proffesional level.
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written by Michael Montgomery , December 23, 2007
I was there when the interviewer interviewed Michael Simeon and he asked me some questions and wrote stuff down and asked for my name but he didn't include me at all in that article. smilies/angry.gif
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